I feel like we go through life trying to play it safe. The way we dress, the words we say; we police ourselves. No one really cares. We think they do....and sure maybe a couple of aholes will say something that makes you think that whatever you are feeling is wrong, but the truth is: It doesn't matter. And that is incredibly freeing.
So go out there and do whatever the F you want (as long as you aren't hurting anyone)